Like a kid on Christmas, I could barely sleep the night before the wedding. I woke up early, before anyone else was up, and sat on my front porch writing letters to my parents, grandparents, and Rod and my vows. When I finally finished, the sun was up and I was drained. I went back to bed. When I woke up, Rod had left the sweetest card on my pillow. I won't share all the intimate details, but he did say that he couldn't tell me what my wedding present would look like, but it would be fluffy and bark. Yay!
Mindy and Alicia were already staying with me, and Carley Anne and Alex came over early to make breakfast. Elise (Rod's brother, Stephen's, girlfriend) and Katie (Rod's groomsman, Chris's, wife) were also there to help me put together last minute details. It was busy.
In order to keep myself from going crazing, I purposely planned a pedicure party for my bridesmaids that morning. We headed to VIP Nails with mimosas and a cheese and fruit tray. It was a very relaxing way to bide my time until things got started.
Afterwards we went back to the house, where everyone got ready (except for me). Carley Anne steamed the dresses, while Jayde and I picked out pictures to frame for the guestbook table. 
I thought I had planned everything down to the last detail, but I forgot one important detail . . . how we were all going to get to Log Haven. After a few minutes of panic and some creative thinking, we all made it there (Thanks Mitch and Katie!) . . . well except for my hairdresser, who got lost and was a half hour late. I was freaking out just a little (okay, a girl can have one bridezilla moment), but luckily my bridesmaids and Lee and Lainey were there to keep me calm (and to make sure I always had a glass of wine on hand). 
The hairdresser, Martha, got there eventually and it only put us behind a little bit. In the end, it really only cut down on the amount of time we had for pictures before the ceremony. I was a little disappointed that we had to be in the meadow taking photos when people started showing up.
Finally, it was time to start. It was really important to us to have the ceremony as personal as possible. We tried to involve our friends and family in every aspect of the wedding. Melanie, one of my best friends from law school and an amazingly talented musician, played several beautiful cello suites for the processional. 
After the mothers and grandmothers were seated, Rod and his dad walked to the front of the aisle. The groomsmen--Stephen, Rod's best man and only brother; Chris, Rod's friend since high school; Jordan, my baby brother--joined walked in from the side, joining Rod at the front. Then, my bridesmaids followed suit: Alicia and Carley Anne, some of my best friends from high school; Jayde, my beautiful younger sister; and Mindy, my maid of honor and best friend since seventh grade. Next were our superadorable ringbearers--my nephews Dustin and Bradley--and flower girls--Lainey and Catherine, Rod's second cousins. 
Finally, it was my turn. My dad and I walked in from a pathway that ran along the meadow. On the walk, my dad told me a story about the day he married my mom and how choked up my Granpa got about his only daughter getting married. He had told my grandpa then that he would not look forward to the day that he had to do the same. 
When we finally got to the aisle, I couldn't see anyone but Rod. I looked at him every step of the way. I paused at the front row to give a rose from my bouquet to my Grandma and Grandpa and to Rod's grandparents. 
Our officiant, was the beautiful and wonderful Judge Carolyn McHugh. I worked with her before she became a Judge, and Rod and I have spent a lot of time with her at social gatherings. We really wanted to have someone we both knew perform the ceremony. She did a beautiful job and made the ceremony so personal. Our good friend Paul also did a reading of "The Art of a Good Marriage" by Wilferd Arlen Peterson. 
Then it was time for the vows. Rod and I each wrote a personal statement, which we read to each other. I had to concentrate on the words on the paper to keep from totally losing it. Even the Judge got choked up. 
Then we said the vows we wrote together. It all seemed so surreal.
We exchanged rings. 
Judge McHugh pronounced us husband and wife and we (finally) got to kiss. 
I still cannot believe how lucky I am to be married to this incredible man. Stay tuned tomorrow for the reception details. 
Wednesday, August 13, 2008
The Wedding Day
Tuesday, August 12, 2008
1 Month
Today was our one month anniversary, so it only seems fitting that we are (finally) ready to blog about the actual wedding. But . . . we decided to celebrate by taking a bike ride instead. Whoever coined "it's like riding a bike," never spent a summer planning a wedding instead of hitting the trails. I'm exhausted. Stay tuned for more pictures tomorrow!
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Monday, August 11, 2008
Pre-Wedding BBQ
Instead of the traditional rehearsal dinner, we invited our out-of-town guests and our friends from work to our house for a pre-wedding barbeque. We had it catered from our favorite barbeque restaurant: Sugarhouse Barbeque. I told Rod that I would take care of dessert and I surprised him with his groom's cake: a snow-covered mountain with trees and skiers. It was supposed to be red velvet (Rod's favorite), but it ended up being just really good chocolate with chocolate filling. We also had a carrot cake with buttercream frosting to celebrate Judge McHugh (our officiant) and my Grandma's birthday. The weather was great and we had a beautiful sunset. 
Thursday, August 7, 2008
Rehearsal
The Tea ran a little late. We got there a little late, but still managed to make it before the flower girls, who had gone on a ride with their dad and grandpa to Park City and ended up in Idaho. It was okay, though, their moms made great stand-ins. 
(Sorry for the bad pictures. I was clear on the other side of the field with my dad).
If you are wondering why I look cold, wrapped in a shawl in the middle of July, I was trying my damndest not to get a sunburn or weird tan lines the day before my wedding.
When we were practicing walking the aisle, I couldn't help but imagine what it would be like to do it for real. 1 day! 
Melanie, our good friend and cellist, came to the rehearsal even though it was her birthday. Nicole, our good friend and wedding liason, made sure she got all the applause she needed :)
Sunday, August 3, 2008
Afternoon Tea
We were so busy before the wedding that our families didn't really have a chance to get together and meet until right before the wedding. I really wanted the women in my family to have a chance to meet the women in Rod's family before we all got swept up in wedding stuff so I invited them all to Afternoon Tea at the Grand America. If you have never been to the Grand America, the building is beautiful. The tea room overlooks a beautiful patio and the tea itself is really luxorious. It is not just tea and biscuits. You get finger sandwiches, scones, tea (of course), and a choice of desserts. It is something that everyone should treat themselves to. For favors, I brought some packets of ginger thins and tea flowers. I wrapped them in cellophane and sealed with our logo stickers. Rod's grandma brought prailines from Louisiana. I think everyone really enjoyed getting to know each other and I was so excited that everyone had a chance to get to know each other.
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